Are you an overwhelmed parent who’s tired of repeating yourself, feeling disrespected, or wondering why nothing seems to work?
Building Your House of Harmony™ is the parenting blueprint for real families seeking lasting change—not perfection.
Clinical therapist and parent coach Deborah Winters introduces the PCN Method—Perspective, Communication, Nurture—a science-backed framework that helps modern parents communicate in ways that meet their child’s three core needs: connection, self-determination, and emotional safety.
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Through relatable stories, real-life scripts, and step-by-step tools, you’ll learn how to reduce power struggles and raise respectful, emotionally healthy kids—from toddlers to teens—without yelling or nagging.
IT'S TIME TO BUILD THE HARMONY YOUR FAMILY DESERVES
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Transform Your Family's Relationships
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Are you exhausted from daily battles with your children? Tired of the cycle of nagging, yelling, and conflict that leaves everyone feeling disconnected?
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Building Your House of Harmony introduces the groundbreaking PCN Method—a practical framework that transforms family conflict into meaningful connection and cooperation.
THE PCN METHOD
As a clinical therapist with over a decade of experience and a mother of two, Deborah Winters has developed a proven system that addresses the three fundamental human needs every child requires for healthy development:
P - Perspective: Learn to see beyond challenging behaviors to understand what your child truly needs, transforming your emotional reactions into thoughtful responses.
C - Communication: Discover age-appropriate strategies that honor your child's need for independence while maintaining necessary boundaries.
N - Nurture: Create lasting change through consistent, loving follow-through that builds trust and security.
This isn't just another parenting book filled with theory and impossible standards.
BUILDING YOUR HOUSE OF HARMONY
Provides practical scripts, real-life examples, and step-by-step guidance for handling everyday challenges like:
✓ Tantrums and emotional outbursts
✓ Homework battles
✓ Sibling rivalry
✓ Screen time conflicts
✓ Disrespectful behavior
✓ Anxiety and worries
Not Gentle. Not Controlling. Just Effective.
The PCN Method isn't about letting kids do whatever they want, nor is it about strict control. It's about finding that sweet spot where children develop internal motivation, emotional intelligence, and problem-solving skills while respecting necessary boundaries.
